While I have not ever given, nor witnessed a birth before, I cannot truly relate to those mothers and families out there who have. The closest I come to knowing about the experience, is from what my own mother has told me about mine. She found out she was pregnant immediately after graduating high school. As she had only been with my father for a month or two, she debated even telling him she was pregnant. She soon realized that she did not want me growing up without a father and upon my dad hearing my mom was pregnant, they married two months later. After 24 years of marriage now, both my parents talked about my birth as the scariest and most exciting times in their lives.
My mother had to be induced as I was well past the two week period after my initial due date and with her contractions, her blood pressure dropped immensely. With modern medicine (by early 1990's standards), they were able to clear her from the red and even helped treat me as I was diagnosed with jaundice at birth. Compared to many developing nations, the simple act of being able to successfully induce, treat the mother, deliver the baby, and treat any conditions, is something that we are blessed with. The simple fact that the hospital admitted my mother is something that women in South Africa struggle with. Medical News Today wrote an article on how maternal death rates in South Africa have been increasing while the world's rates have been decreasing. "According to the United Nations, approximately 4,500 women die annually in South Africa due to treatable and preventable pregnancy and childbirth related causes" (Nordqvist, 2011, para.6). If my mother had given birth in South Africa, there is a high possibility neither of us would be here today.
Reference
Nordqvist, C. (n.d.). The Shocking Truth About Giving Birth In South Africa. Retrieved June 29, 2016, from http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/232413.php
Reference
Nordqvist, C. (n.d.). The Shocking Truth About Giving Birth In South Africa. Retrieved June 29, 2016, from http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/232413.php