A relationship extends beyond just being connected with someone through mutual likes and/or understandings. Relationships are the cement that holds us as human beings together. We are not meant to be alone as we are hardwired for interaction and emotion. Relationships give us both of these. They bring us a reason to wake up, to go to work and better ourselves; they also give us a reason to continue improving our own environment and livelihood. Without relationships, it would be extremely hard to interact with the world around us, especially society.
For me, the relationship I have with my husband and my two dogs are what keep me going and striving to better myself. Every decision and action I take, I remember them and ask myself, "Will this improve our lives?". The cliche of my husband being my best friend is extremely relevant as we met under interesting circumstances and quite literally spent every moment together after. Our relationship is build on trust and a love for laughter. Having this relationship makes me better as a person with a positive outlook on life as I have someone to share things with. Whether that be a good joke or a good book, or even share some of the stress from my day, I can rely on him.
The same goes for my two dogs. While they may not speak in a language others can hear, their actions and looks show me that they trust me to take care of them as I trust them to take care of me. My two pups are the first thing I see in the morning (sorry husband), and the last ones to kiss me goodnight (again, sorry husband). I have a relationship with my dogs that give each of us a purpose in our little family and keep us all going. I believe that my life is better because of the relationships I have with my small little family, each one unique and genuine.
I love your pictures and interesting write up. As we all know a relationship is a vital component of health and wellbeing. There is compelling evidence that strong relationships contribute to a long, healthy, and happy life. The ability to form a stable relationship begins early in life as a child with parents and siblings. I believe that every relationship has the potential and power to enhance other associated relationships either positively or negatively.
ReplyDeleteYou are right that a relationship is what holds us together and we are wired for interaction. Beautiful picture you have here of your husband and dogs. It’s a fact that marriage brings us closer to our mate and helps us to have a positive outlook on life. In marriage we share everything together and we are the ‘rock’ for each other at all times. The support is greater in marriage. One thing that I have learned in relationship is that one’s emotions and behaviors are shaped by prior relationships. I believe that the relationship that we have is affected by our prior relationships. If one had a good family oriented relationship, the person is bond to have one in marriage and future relationships. I don’t have pets but I know the bond you have with your dogs because I used to have one. I gave my do away a year ago when I felt sick and could not take care of it and my husband was too busy to take care of it.
Hi Emily:
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful picture of you and your husband. You two look like you are so in tune with one another and that is a blessing! Relationships these days are so hard to come by especially if two people are not on the same page. I have been in a few relationships and they did not work out, but I moved on and did what I had to do. Fortunately you are in a relationship which makes you two happy. If he is the one that matters the most, then it's a great thing because that is what matters. Congratulations to you and your husband along with your 2 beautiful dogs. I just want to say to value and treasure each moment to give you the inspiration of being very happy!
Emily,
ReplyDeleteWhat a nice picture. You are so right about relationships with your pets. I remember growing up with my dog named Kippie. She was the most important thing in my life as a child. When we lost Kippie it was like losing a member of the family. I love that picture. Relationships are not just of the human kind. You show that in your post. Great picture!